2 Timothy 4:7 "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the course, I have kept the faith ..." At 1:00 PM, Lindsay "Bear" Groen closed her eyes on this side of heaven and opened them in the presence of Jesus. She now has a brand new heart -- one better than any Berlin Heart or transplant could ever give her.
The entire family had the opportunity to be with Laura, Jon and Tanner as she slipped into eternity.
We want to thank the hundreds of thousands of the new family that Lindsay brought together because of her time at Children's Hospital Boston. The outpouring of love, prayers, cards, gifts, and encouragement has been overwhelming.
We also want to thank the doctor's, nurses, and technicians, for the amazing care that they provided to Lindsay and our family. We are most grateful for their love and compassion even up until her very last breath.
Please watch the blog for details and where to direct any Memorial Gifts. I know that the kids would love to hear from you, so don't stop blogging.
200 comments:
Praying for your family.
Still praying for you and your family. You are constantly on our minds. May God give you all peace at this time.
Linny Kennedy
I am so deeply saddened for al of you at Lindsay's departure. I'm happy for her - no more pain, no more tears, no more saddness and in the presence of our dear Saviour. GOD bless you all as you walk through this "fire".
Carol Budd
Lakes Chapel, NJ
Oh, I am so very sorry for your loss, and yet how merciful of our loving God to ease the suffering of His precious Lindsay. Praise the Lord - Lindsay is HEALED at last!
It has been an honor and a privilege to share in this journey of prayer and faith with all of you.
Melanie Lyons
NJ
I grieve for you Jon, Laura, Tanner, Bill, Jan, Uncle Warren, Aunt Phyl, and all the rest of the family. I rejoice for Lindsay as she sits on Jesus' lap.
Praying for you all.
Phoebe, Regan, and Brianna
Our prayers won't stop. God has a new angel, and I rejoice that she is no longer in pain...but I am so saddened for your loss. Please let me know if you need anything at all...your faith has been a true inspiration to me in the few days we've known each other. Thank you so much for that.
-Anna Claire Varnado
Safe in the arms of Jesus...
May the Lord wrap His arms of love round about you and give you comfort and peace. Will be praying for all of you.
With love and prayers,
Susan M.
We don't have any words, just know that we are all praying for you in this time.
Carrie and Joy (for our families)
Words fail- but the love in our hearts and the faith in our God is great. Lindsay was a little girl- with a big heart who challenged our faith and reminded us again and again that HE is the Great Physician. I can picture her dancing around the throne, breathing without trouble and healed in God's perfect way.
Many prayers to all of you- Laura and Jon and Tanner; Jan and Bill and Zach; the Groens; and all the various aunts and uncles.
Love and prayers for all-
Aunt Sharon, Uncle Matt, Kelsey and Jared
So sad for all of you. She has her new heart and it did come at the "Seventh hour"!
Will continue to hold you all up in prayer as well as the Drs., nurses and staff--God bless all of them.
Thank you for this new family I am now part of!
Love you all,
Miriam
My heart aches with yours. My soul rejoices for your child to be with HIM TODAY in paradise!
Laura, thank you so much for trusting me with Lindsay the night Emma was born. She had yet not ever taken a bottle but was still nursing. She was so precious and ate away like a little champ! I remember the dogs...following me up and down the stairs while I held her and I told them if they made me drop that baby, well, nevermind what I told them. What a joy to hold that precious girl. I have no words of comfort only prayers to the Comforter for you all. Dear Lord Jesus: surround and quench this family with an overwhelming sense of You as they grieve, for she is worth grieving and must be grieved. As they move through this season, bring them out the other side. Never forgetting, always loving, PROMISED eternity with YOU and with Lindsay. Thank you Lord for giving us Lindsay to love.
Still standing with you in prayer,
Dina and John
I am shedding tears of joy for Lindsay knowing she is walking hand in hand with Jesus and tears of saddness for you.
May God's peace sustain you this day. Praying for all of you.
Leah, Jon and family
A Visitor from Heaven, by Twila Paris
A visitor from heaven
If only for awhile
A gift of love to be returned
We think of you and smile
A visitor from heaven
Accompanied by grace
Reminding of a better love
And of a better place
With aching hearts and empty arms
We send you with a name
It hurts so much to let you go
But we're so glad you came
We're so glad you came
A visitor from heaven
If only for a day
We thank Him for the time He gave
And now it's time to say
We trust you to the Fathers love
And to His tender care
Held in the everlasting arms
And we're so glad you're there
We're so glad you're there
With breaking hearts and open hands
We send you with a name
It hurts so much to let you go
But we're so glad you came
We're so glad you came
M. Lyons
I don't know what I could possibly say right now. I am so sorry for your loss, I know this has been a very trying time for your family and I am in awe of your strength in Christ as times got more and more difficult. Thank you for letting us be a part of your struggles and I know your little girl is in heaven now meeting her brother or sister that she never got to meet here on earth. Thank you for being such an example to me about keeping faith when it seems there is nothing left.
Greg Terry
Jon and Laura,
Mavis just called to tell me the news. I'm so sorry! We will be praying for you! We love you!
Vic and Mary Lou and girls
When we heard the news the children and I cried, held hands, and prayed for all of you. Afterwards Susanna quoted II Timothy 4:7-8 which is the very verse you have started the update with. Lindsay fought an amazing fight and indeed has won the race. Our prayers will continue to be with you in the days ahead. We praise the Lord that His "peace passes all understanding" and pray that you will be enveloped by His peace.
Much Love, Andy and Jane Kelsall and Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all right now. I thank God for Lindsay and how she brought us all together. Yes, her heart is perfect now! I pray that your family can have peace and comfort, knowing that Lindsay is safe in the arms of the Lord. I have never met any of you; but feel I know you and love you all and are grieving with you. But I will always smile when I see her face. "She is precious in His sight"
Love & Peace
God Bless
Lydia in Cambria
Jon, Laura, Tanner, and family.
There are 27 little marigolds smiling up at heaven in my garden as I type this. Each one is a memorial to Lindsay. I planted them as I prayed for her not knowing that God had already answered our prayers to give her what she needed. God bless you all.
Kerri and Dana Robinson
We're crying with you! Lindsay is finally healed and in the arms of the One who said "Let the little children come to me... for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these."
Much love and many prayers,
Deborah Groen
Jon, Laura and Tanner,
I am so sorry for your loss. I dont know what else to say just that I'm so so so sorry and that Ryan and I are praying and crying for you.
Love,
Sarah Murdough
Our hearts our heavy and eyes full of tears for you. Picturing Lindsay in the lap of Jesus. It was a priviledge to share this journey with you in just a small way... we will continue to pray for you.
Much Love and Prayers,
Scott and Jill
I don't really have any words that are going to make this better. Just know that all of you have been & will continue to be in our thoughts & prayers!
We love you all very much!
Bonnie & Tom Grubbs
Our hearts go out to you, and our prayers continue for all of the family. We've never met, but we can empathize with the pain and sadness you are experience. In February, we lost a daughter who would have turned 17 this past Tuesday, but we are also greatly comforted knowing that she, as Lindsay, is in the presence of our Saviour. May you experience the comfort and grace that only He can provide. God bless you.
Tom and Nancy Bowditch
my heart aches for you right now. you are in my prayers and on my mind constantly. thank you for allowing me to join you on this incredible journey. your faith has truly inspired me.
Jon and Laura,
My eyes are flooded with tears for your loss~ What a sweet little princess she was~ I really do not have any words, but know that I will CERTAINLY pray your family as you face the upcoming days. May the LORD continue to COMFORT and bring you PEACE that only He can grant..
Love,
Rebekah Nichols
I'm praying for all of you that God will give you comfort, and will bless the medical staff who worked so hard to save her life.
Bonnie Urban (friend of Marilyn Heavilin).
Dear Laura, Jon, Tanner, Jan, Bill, etc.
Uncle George and I cannot express how upset we are and how sorry we are for all of you. We truly share your sorrow as well. I cannot even imagine what this must be like for you all, other than to take comfort in knowing that Lindsay is with Jesus and is not suffering and is running all around in heaven with a NEW COMPLETELY WHOLE HEART. We will continue to bring all of you before God's throne each day and will not stop. Lindsay will forever be in all of your hearts. That will never change!!! Keep her memory forever alive. God has truly healed her in His way and according to His will, not ours. We love you all!!! Children's Hospital of Boston truly did all they could for Lindsay - that's for sure!!! The staff there was wonderful!! We'll see you all again soon for the memorial service.
Love to you all,
Aunt Joan, Uncle George, Jason and Jennifer
It's with an immense sense of sadness that I post this message because we've shared the ups and downs of the past 6 weeks and we've prayed everyday for the miracle of healing for Lindsay. Heaven is a better place today... We will continue to keep your entire family in our hearts, minds and prayers. We are so very sorry for your loss.
Rich, Michelle & Family
Dear Ones, Our prayers are with you ALL. Praying that God's strong and loving arms are tighly wraped about ALL of you, and His peace is being felt in ways that only He can provide for you.
We Love you ALL,
Stan & DeEtta
We look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen; for things which are seen are temporal, but the things which are not seen are eternal.
2 Cor 4:18
God will be faithful to give you strength and peace until that day when you are once again united with Lindsay, not for a short time but for eternity.
Allen & Marilyn
Can there be anything that better defines the word "bittersweet"? Lindsay's heart is whole, but she has left behind lots of broken ones. We share your sorrow, and pray that our Lord and yours will comfort when explanations are so elusive. God is still our refuge and strength, although we'd have surely wanted a different outcome. May He sustain you throughout the days to come.
Much love,
Tim and Pat
In sadness, we rejoice.
Continuing to bring you all before the Father in prayer.
Paul & Linda Wolpert
Micah, Pam, Eva and Luca will miss you so much Lindsay. Jon, Laura and Tanner, we pray that God would give you strength and peace. We will be praying for you .
I have a mental picture of Lindsay (after being lovingly greet by Jesus) receiving a soft, cuddly hug from her Great-Grandma Alice, too.
Phoebe
Our hearts are heavy for you,
Lindsay's family; we thank God
for His mercy towards Lindsay and
know she is safely in His arms.
******HUGS******* to all of you.
Love, The Tuz Family
Know that we are greiving with you and at the same time joyous for Lindsay as she enters the kingdom.
Love to you all,
Uncle Jay & Aunt Lois
Our hearts are heavy for you right now, but rejoice that Lindsay has met her Creator who loves her more than anyone and now has a brand new heart! We will continue to pray for you and the family. While we don't understand God's plan, we have faith that it is the Best plan!
Romans 8:28
Love, Jon, Kristen, and Liam
Jon, Laura, Tanner, Groens, Weltes,
My heart aches for sweet, beautiful Lindsay, and for you all in this difficult time. Loss on top of loss. Lindsay is now healed, with a perfect heart. She is now free to move, and bask in the warm love of Jesus. I am so glad that I had a chance to hold her while we were in the church nursery on Easter Sunday. She was such a sweetie!
Your faith and strength has been amazing as you have continued to lean on the "Everlasting Arms". Your family and Lindsay have touched more lives for God, than you will ever know. Continue to lean on Him, as He gives you a portion of grace for each minute of this horrible time.
There is a song-
Day by day, in each passing moment,
strength I find to face my trials here...
I wish I could remember more of the lyrics. We will continue to pray for you all.
The Conways
Oh my, how are hearts are aching with you. We know, through our faith, that Lindsay is 100% healed now. May that truth be a source of comfort for all of your hearts as you face the coming hours and days. Know that your family will remain in our constant thoughts and prayer during this time. We hope to one day meet you all face to face in order to give you a great big hug. Consider yourselves hugged until that day.
Praying for the Lord's peace and comfort for you all.
Love in Christ,
The Sheldon Family
Lisa, Scott, Noah & Sarah
Whiting Bible Church
Grieving with you.
Jim, Becky and Anna Norquist
Ruth and I share with you in the sorrow of Lindsay going home to be with Jesus and at the same time reflect that God has healed her body. We are continuing to pray for the family in the days that lay ahead.
Yes, Lindsay has certainly won the race! Yet, our hearts ache with each of yours as Heaven's gain is your loss. We think of each you, Lindsay's family members, and your loving care for her over the past six weeks.
May God bless you and pour out from His vast supply grace and strength during the hours and days to come.
We love you,
The Cuellar family
Dear Jon, Laura, Tanner, and families,
Our hearts just ache for you with this loss. Lindsay fought so hard for so long against unbelievable odds. She became a source of inspiration with her indomitable spirit and her abiltiy to rally out of the depths again and again. God knew this about her and he picked YOU to be her family, to be the ones to love her, and make the tough decisions about her. You all are as special as she was.
We will continue to keep you in prayer as you learn how to be a parent to a child in Heaven and Tanner adjusts to not having his precious sister in his home. God has shown his faithfulness in giving you the strength for each day and carrying you through the rough times. He will continue to do that.
With deep sympathy,
Dave, Sharon, Sierra, and Derek Phelps
Heaven has gained a beautiful child. She is with our Lord... the best place to be. We'll be praying for God's perfect peace to cover your family.
Love,
Jason, Lisa, and family
Hearts have been truly touched in Texas.
Praise God from whom all blessings flow. Thank you, LORD, for your ultimate healing even while tears are abundant here on Earth.
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of sympathy (pity and mercy) and the God [Who is the Source] of every comfort (consolation and encouragement), Who comforts (consoles and encourages) me in every trouble (calamity and affliction), so that I may also be able to comfort (console and encourage) those who are in any kind of trouble or distress, with the comfort (consolation and encouragement) with which I myself am comforted (consoled and encouraged) by God. 2 Cor. 1: 3-4
Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted. Mat. 5:4
May you all continue to feel His comforting presence.
In His love, Royce
We are so sorry for your loss. We have been checking the blog daily with direction in how to pray for little Lindsey. We will continue to pray for you all as you miss your little girl. I can picture her just giggling with Jesus, holding His hand and skipping by His side. We are glad that God chose to bless you with her little life, even if for a short time. We pray that you would be overflowing with peace in knowing that Lindsey gets to see her Maker face to face.
love, Kevin & Karen Coppinger
It is obvious our LORD's heart could not take Lindsay's suffering any more and whispered into her little ear to come home. So her hand is in His and she smiles as she waits for the rest of us and enjoys the wonders of heaven.
We grieve with the Groen family for times lost on earth with her, even though we know hope is anchored in the longer time you will be with her in Heaven.
May the Lord comfort you in this difficult time.
The Capalbos
Jon, Laura, Tanner, Warren, sister Phyl.
This not is to let you know, that I am feeling some of the greif you are experienceing. lindsay has grown to be a very important person in my life also.
You all did all you earthly could do to help Lindsay. She is a beautiful girl, and is now enjoying another beauty life.
Please be strong for Lindsay and the rest of our family.
RB
There just really aren't words... know that you ALL are loved, prayed for, held before the Throne,
Ruthie & Steve
Dear Laura, Jon, Tanner, and all of Lindsay's family,
You all are in my thoughts and prayers and my heart aches for you. As I sit here, sharing your sorrow, and weeping tears for you, I remember the gut-wrenching pain of losing my daughter. Please know I am here if ever you need to share with someone who's been there. Lindsay, you are home with Jesus. I hope my sweet Kali was there to greet you.
Love,
Nancy Brown
NancyBr@juno.com
My heart aches with sadness at the passing of precious Lindsay. But I know that she is now in heaven with our precious Lord and Savoior. We will be praying for you in the days ahead.
Dave & Laurie Landry
My love and prayers are with you and your family and Lindsay.
Duane Phillips
Keswick Mens Fellowship Nights
Absecon Methodist Church
Cape Atlantic Mens Fellowship
We are so sorry to hear about Lindsay but are also rejoicing that she is in no more pain and in the arms of Jesus!
Even though we do not know you it has been a privilege to pray for you all.
May you draw your STRENGTH, PEACE AND COMFORT during this time from the one who LOVES you the MOST our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ!
Kerry Chelli Tennis and Family
New Hope Church Northwood NH
I'm so sorry I haven't been around this week! I meant to be up at the hospital so much more, but got sick. PLEASE let me know if there is anything more you need in Boston!
Amy
Sigh. Sad for the family, and struggling to be happy for Lindsay, though I know she's in the best place, a happy place. Sweet to read Flo's words. Continuing to pray.
Dave McCarty
Friend of Flo
Even in the midst of our flowing tears we KNOW that Lindsay beat us home and someday we will see her again. Rejoicing in the knowledge of the resurrection. Praying for your peace and comfort. The Hunt's
Jon, Laura, Tanner and family-
There are no words......we are grieving with you. We pray that God will allow you to see many rainbows through this rain, all the ways, big and small, that Lindsay and all of you impacted so many for Him. Thinking of you.
John, Jenny, Hannah and Natalie in NC
Lifting you up in prayer. Please let me know what we can do.
With the Cole Family
Praying for your family and thanking you all for your endless inspiration of GOD's word. Lindsay and your family have tought me so very much. I did not know you personally but will carry the memory of Lindsay and the lessons learned throughout my lifetime. God Bless You All and My Deepest Sympathy, From Westminster MD., Kathy Cornell
we LOVE YOU Jon,Laura,and Tanner. We'll see you Sunday
Ben for Ainsley and Ariel
We love you. We pray for you. May grace overflow your spirits in these days.
Your brother and sister in sorrow--and hope.
Tim and Gayline
Yes, 'tis sweet to trust in Jesus,
just from sin and self to cease;
just from Jesus simply taking
life and rest, and joy and peace.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I'm so glad I learned to trust thee, precious Jesus, Savior, friend; and I know that thou art with me, wilt be with me to the end.
What a fellowship, what a joy divine,
Leaning on the everlasting arms;
What a blessedness, what a peace is mine,
Leaning on the everlasting arms.
Leaning, leaning, safe and secure from all alarms;
Leaning, leaning, leaning on the everlasting arms.
O how sweet to walk in this pilgrim way,
Leaning on the everlasting arms;
O how bright the path grows from day to day,
Leaning on the everlasting arms.
What have I to dread, what have I to fear,
Leaning on the everlasting arms;
I have blessed peace with my Lord so near,
Leaning on the everlasting arms.
~~~~~~~~~~~~
Praying, leaning, with blessed peace knowing Lindsay is in his everlasting arms!
Miss bambi
Dear Jon and Laura,
Today is surely one of those days when you long for Christ's return, that he'd just sweep you away to be with Lindsay this very moment. Remember now that He is really a good Daddy. He wouldn't let his dear children carry any more than what they can handle in that moment. Being that good Daddy, he is holding Lindsay close, just as He now will hold you closer than ever before to His promises. These ones are for sure:
"He will swallow up death in victory; and the Lord GOD will wipe away tears from off all faces;" Isaiah 25:8
"And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away." Rev 21:4
love and pryaers, Amanda Kane in KC
She is in heaven now, restored and whole in the presence of the Lord. We will continue to pray for her.
Blessings on everyone,
Joanne S.
Pennsylvania
There are no words. I am filled with a deep sorrow. I will be praying for all of you for strength and peace and comfort. Hugs and love to you all.
She is in heaven now, restored and whole with the Lord. We will continue to pray for her.
Blessings,
Joanne S.
Pennsylvania
I've grown to love Lindsay and her family through this blog. I'm praying that you will be consoled in your deep sorrow.
In Christ,
Joanne
As a mother I can't begin to fathom your loss. Someday we will be able to see the big picture and understand God's perfect will. Right now...I can't understand it...but I trust it. Thank you for sharing your journey with us through this blog. I have been touched by your faith and praying with you and for you has been my privledge. It has taken me to a new level in my own journey.
I pray that God grants you comfort in dealing with your loss. May Lindsay's soul know no more struggle.
My condolences,
Sseziwa Mukasa
Salem, MA
Words seem so inadequate at this time. It has been a positive spiritual experience for me to have been able for me to pray for precious Lindsay---whom I hve never met---for you Laura and Jon--- for the rest of the family---and for the dedicated medical team. Having bee where you are, Laura and JOn, I'm experienci ng vicariously all of your emotions amd praying for the Lord to cradle you in His arms. The words of the following song meant so much to me;
Aall things work for our good, thoughsometimes we can't see how they could. Struggles that break our hearts in two sometimes blind us to the truth. Our Father knows what's best for us; His ways are not our own. So when our pathway grows dim, and we just can't see Him, remember we're never alone.
God is too wise to be mistaken.
God is too good to be unlind.
So when we don't understand,
So when we don't see His plan'
When we can't trace His plan,
Trust His heaart.
He sees the master plan. He holds the future in His hands. So don't live as those who have no hope; all our hope is found inHim. We see the present clearly. He sees the first and the last. And like a tapestry, He's weaving you and me to someday be just like Him.
He alone is faithful and true.
H e alone jnows what is best for you [us}.
With my love, MER
Life on this earth is short and Lindsay's life was way too short. I pray you can take comfort in the truth of one day spending ETERNITY in the NEW HEAVEN & NEW EARTH with your precious daughter. Praying for your whole family.
With much love,
Judy & Alan Silverstein
Jon, Laura, Tanner, Bill, Jan, Zach and the Groen family --
Our hearts are heavy with grief for your loss, but we are rejoicing that Lindsay has a new heart in the presence of her Heavenly Father Who loves her so.
May God comfort you, sustain you, and give you peace.
Gail and John Klein
Our hearts are one with yours. We remember the pain, but Jon and Laura, we also chose to focus on God. He has a plan for Lindsay that will go on forever; and His plan includes both of you. As we walked through this experience, it was our prayer that our child's life and what we have walked through would never be wasted. That is our prayer for you.
Bill has our number if you ever want to talk. Hopefully we will see you this summer.
In His mercy,
Glen and Marilyn
I am so saddened by Lindsay's passing, but rejoicing that she no longer has the struggle that has been hers for so long. Just think she is smiling at the face of our beloved Savior and now being cared for by the angels of Heaven...I will pray for all of you to get through this difficult time and remember you all in prayers forever....Laura,Jon,Tanner,Bill, The Weltes and the Groens you are all family to me and know that I love you all...pray Matthew 5:4...I wish I could hug you all, but I am hugging you in my heart...God bless, Melanie Vara (Whiting Bible)
To our friends in Boston;
The Weltes, Groens & the Doctors at Boston Children's Hospital
May the Lord Jesus comfort you all with His comfort so you can be a comfort for others in similar situations. Praise the Lord that dear Lindsay is in His presence, now. She has a new heart and lungs and is meeting her new sibling that went Home right before this began.
May God's peace be upon you all.
your friends in Christ.
George & Carolyn Schaffer
May God keep you all in the palm of his hand as he welcomes that dear child into his everlasting Kingdom.
Jon and Laura,
I am so sorry for your loss. I don't even know what to say. I know see is with her savior, but it doesn't make the hurt any less. She is in heaven and watching over you all. I celebrate her life both here and in eternity. Thank you for letting us share this journey with you and for being such an example of faith through the most trying times. My families thoughts, prayers and love are with you all.
The Ireland Family
IMAGINE - stepping onto a shore and finding it heaven...
IMAGINE - touching a hand and finding it God's Hand..
IMAGINE - breathing new air and finding it celestial air..
IMAGINE - feeling invigorated and finding it immortality..
IMAGINE - passing from storm and tempest into an unknown calm..
IMAGINE - waking and find it home!
I have been weeping ever since I heard the news. I prayed you'd never have to experience this, but for reasons known only to Him, He has entrusted all of you with this (especially you, Jon and Laura) because He knew you could be trusted. You've proven that already these last 5 weeks with a true and deep faith in Him. You've proven, like Job, "Thou He slay me, yet will I trust Him." Continue to trust Him with your two precious little babies now being held in His arms. Nothing can ever harm them again and the day will come, (I believe not too far away!!) when He puts them back in your arms - forever!! We all weep with you now, but we will all rejoice with you in That Day. Hold tight to Him and to each other until then. We'll continue to hold you all up in prayer. In His Love, Janet (for all the Jaegers)
That little girl was such an inspiration to me. She gave me such hope I never knew I had before. She had me reading the scriptures with such power and might like I never did before. She taught me how to Love God in all circumstances and trials. We love you all sooooo much!!
You are all in our hearts and prayers always and forever.
Love,
Ed, Karen, Eddie and Elijah
Jon, Laura, and Tanner,
I will continue to pray without ceasing for you and your families. The strength and courage you have shown in Christ Jesus has been an encouragement to others. All of you have been and still are a blessing to the multitudes. Lindsay will stay in our hearts forever and so will you.
Love Hugs Prayer Blessings and Peace
In His Name
Grammy Gail
What can we say, through our tears, but that we will continue to pray for each of you. God will use this in all of our lives in ways we can only imagine. Judee Dickinson
Prayed earlier today for God to make the way clear for you, Laura and Jon...and claimed that Lindsay and all of you are in His embrace....and you are....she is....weeping with you now though...with deep love for all of you!
Becky Stevenson
I can't even imagine going through everything you guys have dealt with these past few weeks, and through it all I keep seeing Jesus' love shining through your whole family. What an amazing witness you all have been, truly an inspiration and an awesome example of how Jesus would want us to be. My heart cries out in pain for our loss here on earth, but it sings for joy for a sweet little girl, who in her short life has inspired so many and is now sitting with Jesus.
Neither one of us can fathom your pain, but we know that God is taking extra special care of Lindsay now that she lives with Him.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you as you find your healing in His arms. May you come to understand the peace that passes understanding.
Lynne and Bill
Love you guys
Love,Meg
We just read the blog. We are feeling for you all and we are rejoicing with you that she has fought the good fight and won the race. Jon and Laura we love you guys and please know that we will continue to pray for you in the days to come.
With much love,
Doug, Ellen and Gabie
Here in New Jersey, the heavens opened and the rains came, heavens tears, never wasted, doing the work of God.
A poet might say they are the tears of God for Lindsay, not so. If they were they would be for you, for the Father and the Son and the Comforter love you so very much.
Many have shed tears these past weeks and those tears have brought families closer, caused believers to turn back to the Savior, been used of God in ways you may never know, Laura and Jon.
Lindsay Alice Groen, used of God, so glad you were here.
LVS
I am so very sorry!! My heart is heavy for all of you. Our prayers are with you.
Love, Candy and Greg
I am so saddened because I know you
will miss her so, but she looks just
like a precious little angel that
came for awhile to bless your lives,
but now she's back home with Jesus,
with her happy smile, and a healthy,
new heart. It has been a privilege
to pray for this family and I pray
God will wrap you in the arms of his wondrous love and give you peace.
Shirley Gordon, New Hampshire
weeping with you, and praying for you to feel God's love and presence in a way that covers you with utter peace and that He gives you His very strength. WE LOVE YOU more than you know.
Kate Shorey
Our hearts are heavy with saddness for all of you but we all have heavenly deposits and I know each and every one of them will be with her as they all have glorified Christ through they unfailing faithfulness..it is glory to glory
In His Sovereignty
Pat and John Keller
I will continue to pray for you and your entire family. As hard as this is we know Lindsay is not hurting anymore or hooked up to any machines!! She indeed has a brand new heart and is with our Lord!! You have taught me a great deal and I have come to love all of you. May you feel His love, comfort and peace especially in the days ahead!!
With Love,
Marilyn
Dear Laura, Jon, Tanner, and Family,
This is a post-script to my earlier blog. Lindsay is now in the loving arms of Jesus. May her testmony to the loving care of Jesus, along with yours, remain in the memories of the dedicated Medical staff and cause them to put their trust in our Lord Jesus Christ. Lindsay has not died in vain. Love, MER
Our hearts are heavy with sadness for you all and God's comfort will surround you as He never breaks a promise...May you find comfort in His arms and praise Him through your storms, draw Him close to you for He will never let you go....He loves you and so do we.
John and Pat Keller
Sellersville, PA
We love you guys and are praying for your peace through this trial. Even though we know this fits into God's perfect plan, it is hard to give up our time with Lindsay on this earth. Someone quoted a line from the hymn "Day by Day", I think the whole song is an awesome prayer and reminder for us that God is always near to strengthen us and bear our cares.
Day by day, and with each passing moment,
Strength I find, to meet my trials here;
Trusting in my Father’s wise bestowment,
I’ve no cause for worry or for fear.
He Whose heart is kind beyond all measure
Gives unto each day what He deems best—
Lovingly, its part of pain and pleasure,
Mingling toil with peace and rest.
Every day, the Lord Himself is near me
With a special mercy for each hour;
All my cares He fain would bear, and cheer me,
He Whose Name is Counselor and Power;
The protection of His child and treasure
Is a charge that on Himself He laid;
“As thy days, thy strength shall be in measure,”
This the pledge to me He made.
Help me then in every tribulation
So to trust Thy promises, O Lord,
That I lose not faith’s sweet consolation
Offered me within Thy holy Word.
Help me, Lord, when toil and trouble meeting,
Ever to take, as from a father’s hand,
One by one, the days, the moments fleeting,
Till I reach the promised land
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Joe and Lydia
Jon and Laura I am so very sorry. I am praying for you and your family.
Cindy Cromwell
I am sorry to hear about Lindsay and pray for all of you. Thank you for sharing this part of your life - it has been a privilege to pray for each one of you and will continue to do so in the days ahead.
~Jody
my prayers are with ALL you
Jon, Laura, Tanner & Family
Our heartfelt sympathies are with you. Please know that we lift you all up before our Lord Jesus that He may bring comfort to your souls and peace to your hearts. Lindsay is now in the loving, peaceful arms of our dear Lord. You cannot believe how this precious, beautiful baby, whom we have never met, has so touched our hearts. All priase to our Lord Jesus who not only brings His children together in marvelous ways, but also through His promises assures us that we will all see the beautiful, smiling face of Lindsay again. God bless you.
Bob & Kathy Garelick
My heart is breaking for you all at this time. But what a testimony you have been to me, and to MANY, MANY others. God has been praised through all this trial, and we praise Him now even though we don't understand. My prayer is for grace and peace and rest and that the Great Comforter will hold you tight in His hand, and bring others around all of you to be the arms of Jesus right where you are. God bless you as you struggle through the days to come with His overwhelming love and grace.
JoAnne Carroll
all i can say is i will pray for you and the family...
~kim~
Our hearts are aching...we are weeping and SO saddened for you, but we KNOW who holds our hearts in His Hands, and He understands and weeps with you both right now through the pain of your loss.
Lindsay has touched more lives for Christ in her short time here on earth than most people do in a lifetime. We are continuing in prayer for ALL of you, and know you will begin a new process of experiencing HIS PEACE...and HIS JOY in rejoicing that HE now has Lindsay wrapped tightly and securely in His presence.
Lovingly, Glen, Genine, Melinda, Jenna.
I keep picturing what a proud big sister Lindsay is in heaven today to your preborn baby that also too soon departed this earth. It is our painful loss but heaven's joyful gain. My heart simply aches for you all. Thank you for being so willing to share Lindsay with through the good times and bad. We are all better people for knowing her and having shared in these days with you. We love you.
pam and fam
I am so saddened to read this....I really thought she had a chance. But I guess God knows what's best. I don't know what to say except I know she is with Jesus now and will be there to welcome us all one day. God be with you all.
Joy Snyder
I just heard the sad, sad news and wanted you all to know how my heart aches for you. All the hundred of prayers didn't give us the outcome we wanted, but shows us that The Lord has a plan for even the littlest of us. Aren't we fortunate to know that Linday is now in the arms of those we loved who have gone before and that we will all be together for all eternity??? Your faith has gotten you to this point and will carry you thru. You have all been an inspiration and true witnesses.
hugs and love
Barbie
Jon and Laura,
I do not know what you are going through, but I do know that our God is still in control and he will do what is right for each of us. He is a merciful God and he was ready for your little angel to reunite with him. Now, she is smiling down on you all. We continue to pray for your family to have peace and comfort. Just know, that oneday, you will see her beautiful blue eyes again and it will be a joyous day. We love you all and will forever have a place for Lindsay in our hearts. Now, she will be Logan's gaurdian angel. Please keep in touch. God bless you all and NEVER Give up and always KEEP the Faith.
Love,
Joshua, Kayla, and Logan Poret
My heart and prayers go out to you all.
Psalm 23:4
Karyn Beltle
Dear Jon and Laura, Tanner, Bill and Jan and all your families,
Our Heavenly Father loaned you a life in this precious child, Lindsay, and called her home to Himself in His appointed time. ["Our times are in His hands."] Though we grieve deeply with you in your profound loss, we also rejoice in the beautiful testimony to so many of the LIFE of Jesus Christ in and through you all. May you know the comfort of His Divine Presence through His Spirit, as well as the comfort that comes through the family of God, who share your faith and hope in the resurrection.
Love in Christ Jesus our Lord,
Butch and Lee Augustin
Dear Laura, Jon,& Family,
We am so sorry for your loss. In this hard time your faith and courage have touched the hearts and lives of so many.
Romans 8:28 And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.
I am sure God will continue to work in the hearts and lives of the hospital staff. We will keep you all in our prayers.
Philippians 4:7 and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
Love in Christ, Faith & Andy Castillo
Weeping with you and praying for you all.
With love,
Cherri, Mark, Gloria, Susy, Ali Pavuk and Sarah and Christopher Mackey
Don’t weep for me, I am home
For though I have passed,
Gone beyond your world,
Beyond your life,
I live.
Don’t weep for me, I am home
For though I am not there,
With you no longer,
Forever a memory,
I live.
Don’t weep for me, I am home.
For though you cannot hold me,
Cannot feel my touch,
Or my breath,
I live.
Don’t weep for me, I am home.
For death has not conquered,
I live—more vibrantly than ever,
In the presence of Our Father.
I have moved
From life…to LIFE.
Even though we know that Lindsay is happy, it doesn't take away the grief. I weep for you, dear friends, and pray that His peace and comfort will overwhelm you during this time.
Even through my tears for you, it brings a smile to my face to know that Lindsay was welcomed with great rejoicing into heaven by Jesus and Grandpa and Grandma Groen. Don't you know that is one fabulous Groen family party!
You are continually in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Lisa DeKruif
I can't imagine your pain. I am praying for you.
Tracey Zimmerman (and family)
Dear family: especially Jon & Laura. What a fablulous example you have been & are to us all. We are only two of the many who have been priveledged to be included in the tsunami of prayer on your behalf. Aunt Dottie said, "The look on Linsay's face in her main picture is like her looking at & meeting Jesus for the first time." With mixed emotions of hurt & with joy please know we are continuing to present you all to Jesus through this difficult time. Again, remember. "When you can't trace His hand, trust His heart!" We love you a bunch!!! Aunt Dottie & Uncle Jack Noel
The LORD bless you, and keep you:
The LORD make his face shine on you, and be gracious to you:
The LORD lift up his countenance on you, and give you peace.
The Lord is with you always--every second, every heartbeat. And He will walk this road with you.
A friend
I cried this evening when I learned that Lindsay had passed. I am so sorry. We know she now is with the Lord and has a new heart, but that does not change the loss you feel. We are praying that you are experiencing God's presence and grace.
God Bless.
Eric and Denise
NH
Quite a few years ago my younger brother went home to be with the Lord. At his funeral my sister and I sang the following song and there was much comfort in it for us. I share it with you hoping you feel some of that same comfort....even now as your heart bears a heaviness most of us can only imagine. Nevertheless, we still stand with you and uphold you in prayers of petition before the Lord. And He, who hears us will draw near in unexplainable ways to carry us through...bit-by-bit...step-by-step...moment-by-moment.
Serenaded By Angels
Written By Kirk Talley
Verse I
She went to sleep one night
Never to awake again
But everything was allright
Between her and Him
She awoke in Heaven’s
courtyard
Free from pain within
The angels gathered around her
And took her by the hand
Chorus
Serenaded by angels, up to the throne
Serenaded by angels,
finally at home
Surrounded by praises, to the King
Welcome to Paradise, the angels did sing...
Welcome to Paradise, the angels did sing...
Stephanie
We are deeply saddened by your(s) loss, yet rejoice in knowing she is with GOD. No more pain, no more tears or fears. She has touched our hearts and brought us all that much closer in belief and faith. We remain in prayer for you all. With Love, The Nazarians
Jon, Laura, Tanner and family,
Praying the God who has sustained you thus far will heal your broken hearts. We remain touched by your testimony of God's faithfulness.
With tears,
The Ford
Six weeks ago in our little church in Medford, NJ Pastor Joe shared the plight of a family then unknown to many of us... with a little girl with a broken heart, her parents' grief over the loss of their unborn baby, and the little girl's family and asked us to keep them in prayer. And so we did.
Six weeks later, Lindsay has brought us all together in the great and loving family of God. Each day as we checked the blog to find out how she was doing and how we could best be praying, we would see the pictures of her beautiful smiling face and her loving family... and we would smile -you couldn't help but smile at the pictures of "Lindsay Bear and the Snow Monkey" - and we would pray.
Today, we feel the pain of her loss and we grieve, we mourn, we rejoice, we pray, we cry, we immerse ourselves in our Lord Jesus and the Word of God for His Comfort. Thank-you, Groens and Weltes, for sharing this unbelievably personal and emotional time so openly with all of us through the blog. We have all come to love you as we prayed for Lindsay's healing. Please continue to let us share this time with you. ...to let us hold you up to our Father in prayer. ...to help bear your burdens. ...to help celebrate Lindsay's earthly life and her new life in Heaven. ...and to show you that you are loved.
And to God be all the Glory...
Blessings,
Brenda K.
Lakes Community Chapel
Medford, NJ
Somehow let the whole team at the hospital know how much we admire them & thank them for their constant care & concern, not only for Lindsay, but for all of you too. How fantastic they are. They have all been part of our on-going prayers - and will continue to be. Because of Lindsay we will never forget them! Jack Noel
Jon, Laura, Tanner, Bill, and Jan,
I am deeply saddened by the loss of Lindsay "Bear" Groen.... the tears flow still as I write this.
I have nothing but fond memories of Lindsay- remember the day she went out into the garden after her chest xray and came back with the purple flowers tucked behind her ear?
Lindsay truly touched me. Her innocence, her strength, and her beautiful spirit of life. I am both honored and privileged to have cared for her and been part of her journey.
Jon, Laura, Tanner, Bill and Jan, I am honored to have taken part in your journey as well. Admittedly, your family has changed me. Your faith, hope, patience, and love is incredible. You have inspired and encouraged me both as an individual as well as nurse. Lindsay could not have asked for a better family, and you did absolutely everything in your power to support her during her struggle. She is gone, but NEVER forgotten.
My heart aches for you, and my thoughts are with you.
Lindsay's 8East Nurse,
Julia
Laura and of course the rest of lindsays family, I have been glued to my computer since I heard from u last week laura, and I am so sad for you
About 20 years ago our lives crossed paths Laura, and instantly became friends. You moved to sandy cove and we visited at least once a year.
Once loosing touch our myspace brought us together again.
On this day our lives crossed paths once again when my angel Colin greeted sweet Lindsay in Gods arms. Our babies were taken too soon and our hearts will forever be empty. I hope to come see you soon if not for a funeral if I can - and will do all in my power too do so. Please call me if u ever need to let loose and talk or need someone I am here.
Its been almost 4 years since Colin passed and each day is just as hard as the last. I am alway here for you.
My love and deepest sympathy, Sibahan Sanders (O'Flynn)
We are continuing to pray for you all.
Danielle & Patrick Cooley
Dear Laura, Jon,Tanner,Bill, Jan and Family,
I am so very sorry and saddened at the loss of your precious baby Lindsay. You are all in my prayers. I pray you feel Jesus arms around you this very day.
Love, Jen Nicholson
We love you, and are praying for you!!! Our church is praying for you as well!!!
-Abigail
We will never be the same for having known Lindsay. Thank you and thank God for giving us the opportunity. We are here and we will continue to pray and care and love your unforgettable family.
With love,
The Bowies
We are praying for you, and crying, and thankful for Jesus. Because Lindsay lives. Our hearts ach so much for you. Oh Jesus please be close.
Love
Ken & Stephanie Akselsen
Lincroft Bible Church
Dear Bill, Jan and family, I have been out most of the day and just turned on the computer and read that precious Lindsay is now at home with the Lord who loves her so much. While you know this is true, still your hearts are heavy with grief and thousands of people who you have never met are grieving with you. Please know that we will be upholding you all in prayer in the days to come.
He giveth more grace when the burdens grow greater,
He sendeth more strength when the labors increase
To added affliction He added His mercy
To numberous trials His multiplied peace.
His love has no limit
His grace has no measure
His known unto men
For out of infinite riches in Jesus,
He giveth and giveth and giveth again.
(Can't think of the words that go in the chorus, but I bet Bill will know them.)
Praying for you all,
Carol Bancroft
What a true Angel. I remember Lindsay running around the vestry with her blanket and stuffed animal. She was always happy and content! I honestly don't know what to say, I will always remember her beautiful smile and those big blue eyes:) We prayed tonight and asked Jesus to say hi to Lindsay for us and to give her a hug.
Amy, Aiden & Gabe
hi jon laura,I just heard the sad,sad news,and wanted you all to know how my heart aches for you.my heart and prayers go out to you all. ruth and elizabeth
Dearest Jon, Laura, Tanner and family, We weep with you and rejoice that Lindsay is no longer suffering. She has a new heart and she is in the presence of our Savior. What a testimony you all have been to the staff and other families around you during your time at Children's Hospital. The journey has not been an easy one, but God is the sustainer of our strength. You have been faithful to Him through this time and shared that strength with others. We thank you for the privilege of being a part of the prayer line going to the Father on Lindsay's behalf. Our journey continues with our 2 month old great nephew having to have open heart surgery in the next few months at CHOP. Your journey doesn't stop here, God has great plans for you to minister to those who may be going through what you have just gone through. He will use you for His honor and glory and lives will be changed because of your faith and testimony in the living God. We love you and continue to pray for you during this difficult time.
Love, Aunt Connie and Uncle Bob
She is home with the Lord and eventually you guys will be able to see her in paradise.
John Seaton
Uncle Bob lost his sister when she was 2 years old. This has brought sadness to him remembering her and then hearing about Lindsay Bear. Lindsay Alice has met Ethel Alice in heaven. Love, Aunt Connie
Woody and Natalie send their love and want to express their sympathy for your deep loss.
Jon and Laura: It was a great encouragement to see you this past week. It was a great blessing to meet Lindsay. It was an honor, as I left one evening and said, "Bye Lindsay," to have her wave to me. And it will be my privilege to pray for you both in your time of loss. Look to Christ. Lean on Him. Trust Him for His grace. Even in your pain and sorrow, take courage.
Ps. 68:19 - Blessed be the Lord, who daily bears our burden, The God who is our salvation. Selah."
From William Cowper:
God moves in a mysterious way
His wonders to perform;
He plants His footsteps in the sea
And rides upon the storm.
Deep in unfathomable mines
Of never failing skill
He treasures up His bright designs
And works His sovereign will.
Ye fearful saints, fresh courage take;
The clouds ye so much dread
Are big with mercy and shall break
In blessings on your head.
Judge not the Lord by feeble sense,
But trust Him for His grace;
Behind a frowning providence
He hides a smiling face.
His purposes will ripen fast,
Unfolding every hour;
The bud may have a bitter taste,
But sweet will be the flower.
Blind unbelief is sure to err
And scan His work in vain;
God is His own interpreter,
And He will make it plain.
For All the Heidels,
Chuck
Jon & Laura:
I will continue to pray that you feel the comfort and peace that can only come from knowing God.
Bill, Jan & Zack, my prayers are with you as well during this very difficult time.
My prayers will be with you all.
Thanks for sharing.
Norma
No words can express our sorrow. God bless you Jon, Laura and Tanner. Expressions of sympathy have been expressed by many of our co-workers at Goss, many of whom are not Christians, but have been reading Lindsay's blog daily. They have been touched by the strength and faith of your family. Linsay's legacy will be a Kingdom Harvest.
All our love,
Elaine and Pete <><
I drove home today, took a shower, and put on my "Life Is Good" fleece socks....then I thought of Lindsay and I cried some more. I am in awe of how such a little beautiful girl touched my life in such a short amount of time. I so admire each and every one of you for your faith and strength. I am the blessed one that has been touched by your family. Thank you. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. And YES, tell Tanner that we WILL have a Skeeball match at Chuck'E'Cheese.
thinking that although the BIG miracle wasn't performed as i had hoped-that lindsay would be fully healed, that knowing now what we do about her longstanding compromised cardiac function-that really every single day that she was here was a miracle. so that's like 700 miracles right there.
i know we will never be the same for having known lindsay.
love pam and fam
Dearest Family of Lindsay:
Our hearts are very heavy for you all but we cannot help but recognize how precious Lindsay is like the "Lamb in the arms of Jesus!" Please know our continuous prayers are with you all at this difficult time. "We do not grieve as those who do not have hope...."
God bless each one of you.
Love,
Paul & Joan Shumate
Dear Jon & Laura,
We are so sad for your loss. I remember when we lost Ann Elizabeth, our first daughter,she lived for about an hour or so and i never got to see her or hold her. I think about that and cry sometimes wondering what she would have been like, but I will have to wait till I see her again in glory. I know that God has given you so many great times with Lindsay. Enjoy and remember all those times and share them often with Tanner. I know that God will carry you through and deepen your faith.
We continue to pray for you and Jon and know that God will sustain you.
With our Love,
Jim and Tami, and family.
Jon, Laura & Tanner:
Donna had called to tell us that they were going to turn off the life supports. At 1:15 p.m. on WDAC our friend, Larry Dale, played the song we appreciate so much "stepping on shore...touching a hand and finding it God's...." Joan said, "Paul, Lindsay is home." Then we learn shortly afterward that God had "welcomed her into His presence at 1:00 p.m. HEALED! God bless you and hug your close.
Love,
Paul & Joan
Our hearts and prayers are with you guys. Thank you for letting us go through this with you. You have strengthened the church of Jesus Christ by uniting us during this time.
Rob and Terri
Our hearts are breaking for you...The Dares
Jon & Laura, Tanner, Warren & Phyl; God certainly DID heal Lindsay's heart the "seventh hour"!She's one of God's angels now. I can see her wearing a "little pink" dress and "little pink" wings smiling with her precious smile & beautiful blue eyes! I want to put my arms around all of you & hug you tight! Since I can't do it physically,I'm asking God to do it for me.
Love Warren & Elaine
Safe in the arms of Jesus, that's were Lindsay is. Our hearts ache for all you in this loss but rejoice that she is at rest with her Heavenly Father. We truly have been blessed by the witness and testimony you have demonstrated to all those around you. Our prayers go out to all of you. We pray you rest now and find comfort in the Lord and those of us that love you. Uncle Bill and Aunt Carol
Dear Jon, Laura, Tanner, Bill, Jan and all the Groens and Weltes - it has been about five hours since I read the update on the blog about Lindsay's homegoing. I have tried to grapple with my thoughts enough to write them down, but feel so inadequate . . . we cry with you. Hannah (10) is devastated - Lindsay (and you) have become a HUGE part of our lives - we have checked the blog first thing each day, many times throughout the day and the last thing before going to bed each night. We have prayed incessantly, and will continue. While we cannot understand the mind of God, we know He has a plan. We feel confident that God sent you to the Children's Hospital to bring light and hope to the many staff members, as well as the other families who have been there with their children. I've been thinking of Job and these verses are from Job 4:8-11: "But as for me, I would seek God, and I would place my cause before God; who does great and unsearchable things, wonders without number. He gives rain on the earth, and sends water on the fields, so that He sets on high those who are lowly and those who mourn are lifted to safety." Please know how we grieve with you and how much we truly care -thank you for allowing us to share in this journey. We have learned to pray in new and bold ways, and we will boldly go before the throne on your behalf. God bless all of you -
Julie and family in CT
My heart is just aching for all of you. There are many tears being shed and I'm sure that there also is an occasional smile when someone thinks of something cute that Lindsay did during the time that she was with you. When I heard of her passing today, the words of two songs came to me - "I Have Decided To Follow Jesus" and "Safe In The Arms Of Jesus".
May prayers are continuing for all of you.
caf
We are praying for you as you let go of your precious little girl and place her in the loving arms of Christ. She has touched so many hearts in her short time on earth and will be remembered as a brave little soldier who hung strong during a difficult battle. What a testimony you have all been of the grace and love of Christ to those around you. Our hearts ache for you and we will contiue to pray for you as you journey through the days and weeks to come. We pray you will expreience that peace that passes all understanding. You are in our prayers daily. Bill and Jan Covelens
Over the past few weeks we have grown to love you and your little girl as we have daily read about her progress and prayed for her and your family. Please know how sad and sorry we are for the pain you are facing. We will continue to pray that you will be strengthened with all power, according to His glorious might, and that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. As we praise Him for Lindsay's perfect healing, we will pray that her joy in His presence will bring you comfort. And we will continue to ask God to produce much fruit from your testimony of faith and endurance as you have shone brightly for Him through this difficult time.
With love, thoughts and continued prayer,
John, Kathy, Matt and Grant Noel
praying for you the szalma family
Our family has been praying for Lindsay and your family since we first heard of her condition. All though we do not know each other we are brothers and sisters in Christ. There are no words......just prayers. I just keep thinking and seeing her safe in the arms of Jesus. We will continue to lift all of you up to our Lord. Our hearts rejoices that she is indeed safe and at peace. Yet, as parents our hearts ache with you for your loss.
Bob, Maryanne VanDeventer and family
Toms River NJ
Dear Ones,
It is hard to understand how God can give us such intense love for a little one many of us never knew. Lindsay deeply touched out hearts. It has been a journey of His heart though ours as we have been priveleged to pray throughout the days and nights for her. We have grown to love you and thank you for letting us be part of God's work in sharing your burden. My heart aches for you all and I will keep you lifted in prayer through the days ahead. I can only imagine how great His love is as I hear the love poured out through His people encouraging you and lifting you up. I pray His comfort be deep for you and your loved ones. Peace be with you all, Donna
This song was sung at my grandfathers funeral...
("If You Could See Me Now"
- Kim Noblitt )
"Our Prayers have all been answered
I finally arrived
The healing that had been delayed
Has now been realized
No one's in a hurry
There's no schedule to keep
We're all enjoying Jesus
Just sitting at His feet
If you could see me now
I'm walking streets of gold
If you could see me now
I'm standing tall and whole
If you could see me now
You'd know I've seen His face
If you could see me now
You'd know the pain's erased
You wouldn't want me to ever
leave this place
If you could only see me now
My light and temporary trials
Have worked out for my good
To know it brought Him glory
When I misunderstood
Though we've had our sorrows
They can never compare
What Jesus has in store for us
No language can share
If you could see me now
I'm walking streets of gold
If you could see me now
I'm standing tall and whole
If you could see me now
You'd know I've seen His face
If you could see me now
You'd know the pain's erased
If you could see me now
I'm walking streets of gold
If you could see me now
I'm standing tall and whole
If you could see me now
You'd know I've seen His face
If you could see me now
You'd know the pain's erased
You wouldn't want me to ever
leave this perfect place
If you could only see me now
If you could see me now
If only you could see me now"
I can not say any thing that has not already been said. I'm sorry for your loss, but she is in a better place now...but that does not help the pain you feel inside.
Thank you for allowing me to join you on this journey through the blog. Your faith has encouraged and inspired me.
praying for you
Rachel C
So many songs are crowding through my mind. Natalie Grant's "In Better Hands Now," Hillsong United's "Lead Me to the Cross," "Rock of Ages," "Great is Thy Faithfulness," "Blessed Assurance"...and one that holds my thoughts tonight...
"Precious Lord, take my hand,
Lead me on, help me stand.
I am tired, I am weak, I am worn.
Thro' the storm, thro' the night,
Lead me on to the light
Take my hand, Precious Lord
Lead me home
"When the darkness appears
And the night draws near,
And the day is past and gone,
At the river I stand;
Guide my feet, hold my hand.
Take my hand, precious Lord
Lead me home."
We have never known Home the way Lindsay knows it now. I pray that you find rest in the coming days, knowing she is healed and Home. I am so sorry.
With deepest sympathy,
Susie
We will continue praying for you all. God will comfort you in a way no one else can.
Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help you.
Tracy, Ed, Sarah & Rebecca
We love you guys so much and have followed your blog this whole time. Sorry it has taken us this long to write anything. We are praying for you and mourn your loss like she was are own. The Lord is the father of mercy and comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulations (2 Cor. 3and4) as you very well know by now. -Jesse, Melissa, and Taylor Post
I am so shocked and disbelief to hear this terrible news. It reminded me of my sister' daughter who fell from second floor, and died at the hospital when her baby was five years old. I am filled with sorrow and broken hearted. I can only offer you my sincere condolance and this loving words in this fragile world:
Nothing in this world can satisfy me; Jesus you the Lord that can filled me up.
I could gain the whole world and its treasure but all those things will never be enough.
It is your love
It is your goodness
It is your kindness and compassion that fill me up inside.
It is your grace
Your tender mercy
It is your present in my life that satisfy.
My condolance,
Bobby A Sinulingga
My sympathy to you Jon, Laura and Tanner.
I cannot imagine the sorrow of losing this beautiful little girl but praise God for His promises, the promise of life eternal.
I thank the Lord for Lindsey Alice Groen's precious life.
Jon and Laura you are very special people - what good, faithful and loving parents you are.
Thank you for sharing this experience with us.
May the Lord Bless you and carry you through the days ahead.
Lori De Kruif
I am so very sorry to hear this news. Thinking of you many times an hour. I am imagining, as Phoebe and Lisa did, Great-Grandpa and Great-Grandma Groen welcoming Lindsay with utter delight.
Jon,Laura,Tanner and family,
I came to work this morning and heard the news. Please know how truely sorry I am for the loss of your sweet girl Lindsay bear. My heart aches for all of you and I will keep you in my prayers.
Much love to you all.
Julie M. ECMO
Laura, the liklihood that you and I both moved from MN at the same time and ended up meeting was such an encouragement for me at the time. Lindsay was such a beautiful girl and brought joy to everyone who knew her. I remember when you dressed her in a dress and jeans and said that you dressed her like me! She looked so cute!
You and Jon have been the best parents she could ever have, and you gave her everything she needed on this earth. Lean on your friends and family whenever you need to. God has and will ALWAYS be your ROCK! I will pray for your family whenever I think of you (which is quite often!)
Love, Ruth Brown
Our hearts are heavy with sorrow for all of you as we all know saying goodbye to anyone is so difficult But praise God that we can stand firm on knowing full well that we will all meet again in the glorious wonder of God's kingdom...May you all feel His loving arms around you in the days ahead...as we continue to lift you all in prayer.
John and Pat Keller
Sellersville
Bill, Jan, Josh, Laura and everyone-
Just another family here sharing your grief and loss. Still, we do not grieve as others do who have no hope. 1 Thess. 4
Laura and Jon, we have been praying for your family and Lindsay. She in turn has been a blessing to us. We continue to pray for you and all the family as you grieve. We grieve with you.
Jim and Eileen Patterson
Colony Graduate & Freedom Fighter)
Throughout this entire situation you have displayed the type of courage that can only come from God. May His perfect peace fall upon you now. Our prayers, hearts and thoughts are with you. Please let us know if you need anything.
Scott & Kathy
Prayed for you through the night as the Lord awakened me. Diane Hunt
Our prayers have been with you. We will continue to lift you up in prayer.
Greg Banks and Family
Jon & Laura,
Today we cry tears. Not for the ones that are gone but for us. We are sad for what we will miss but are comforted with the fact that we will see them again.
I am in awe of your strength and testimony. Even in the middle of your trial you were able to minister to the world through Lindsay and her blog.
Lindsay and Tanner are blessed to have such special parents and Grandparents.
Dear Jon & Laura and Tanner,
Bill, Jan, Zach, Phyllis, Warren & all the family~
Our love & prayers continue to be with you now that we are home. What a blessing for us to be with you the past few days, to share in the ups and downs and then to witness Lindsay's home going. We are very saddened for your loss, we love you all so much. We will continue to keep you in prayer as you walk these difficult days ahead.
As we've gone through this journey with you, your dependence on our Lord, your stability in HIS strength & your unwaivering faith has impacted us deeply. We love you!!!
Psalm 23
In HIS Grip,
Brian, Donna, Jesslyn, Julia, Joel & Jeremy
praying, we have been and will be.
To the Groen and Welte families. We share in your sadness and rejoice in knowing that Lindsay is in the arms of her Holy Father. We will continue to pray for you all through this difficult time.
Love in Him,
Rich and Dinean Batchelder
the timeless theme, Earth and heaven will pass away.
It's not a dream, God will make all things new that day.
See all around, now the nations bow down to sing.
The only sound is the praises to Christ, our King.
Slowly the names from the book are read. I know the king, so there's no need to dread.
See over there, there's a mansion, oh, that's prepared just for me. Where I will live with my Savior eternally.
No more night. No more pain.
No more tears. Never crying again.
And praises to the great "I AM". We will live in the light of the risen Lamb.
All praises to the great "I AM".
We're gonna live in the light of the risen Lamb.
Because Lindsay Bear's story has gone around the world and the world has witnessed your strength and courage because of your faith in Jesus Christ, may many live in the light of the risen Lamb because their names have been written in the Lambs book.
Love, Aunt Connie
This song kept coming to me last night and as I woke up this morning.
You all have been such an encouragement to me. Laura & Jon, though we have never met it seems we are family. Lindsay Bear became part of my vocabulary as I prayed every day. I know the God of all comfort will be with you as you work through the grief. I too lost a son 2 years ago. His peace and love will sustain you all as we know God is Faithful. In His Love, Ruth Yates
Susie and I continue to pray for you. Words cannot express our feelings at this time; we love you.
Jon and Laura. There are no words that I can share with you that will ease the incredible pain that you are going through now. In Christ alone you will find the strength to press on. We never met Lindsay, but she made an impact on our family. She brought us to our knees! Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, The Rigby's
My heart grieves with you. While I can't imagine what it feels like to lose a child, I've lost other loved ones and experienced our Savior's "peace that passes all understanding." I know you're trusting His grace, and He will uphold you with His strong and loving grasp. My love and prayers are with you.
"Uncle" Mike
Dear family,I continue to pray for
strength and encouragement for you. We all know that Lindsay
is gone but she is walking the streets of gold in heaven and listening to all the harps and angels playing with rejoicing and gladness. She was full of smiles and laughter and so much more.Right
know she is up in heaven getting her crown from Jesus. And laughing with all the loving people with him, my Lord of Lords. My king is taking great care of Lindsay.
love Jesslyn
At 1:00 yesterday, I stopped class and asked my students if we could pray for Lindsay. I imagine that as we prayed Lindsay was getting her first look at Jesus' face. I keep thinking about the tears that Jesus is catching all over the world for Lindsay, and my own tears are mingling in that bottle. I love you all sooooo much. You have all blown me away these last few weeks. You have revealed God to me in your patient waiting at Lindsay's bedside, in your encouraging conversations with doctors, nurses and Lindsay's neighbors, and your tender attending to Lindsay's needs. You are very present in my thoughts and prayers.
With love and sorrow,
Shannon (for me and Andy) Norquist
Dear family, Lindsay is up in heaven and her brother or sister is taking care of her and so is Jesus. God loves Lindsay! Lindsay is happy in heaven, she isn't sick anymore. I Love Lindsay and I will miss her!Love Julia Bitler
My heart is heavy today with sadness for the loss of your little girl. Through your struggles over the last month, I have found faith and strength in the Lord that I only thought I had. My Christian walk has really only just begun, but through praying for Lindsay and your entire family my heart has a renewed spirit for our Lord. May the knowledge that Lindsay had such purpose and impact on others give you some peace.
Trish V.
DBC
I wanted to tell you how closely Ive kept
The memories of you in my heart
And all of the lifetimes that we've had to share
Live even though we're apart
But don't cry for me
'Cause I'm finally free
To run with the angels
On streets made of gold
To listen to stories of saints new and old
To worship our Maker
That's where I'll be
When you finally find me
Now don't you be weary cause waiting for you
Are wonders that you've never known
Just hold on to Jesus, reach out for His hands
And one day they'll welcome you home
And that's when you'll be
Finally Free
Finally Free
I wish you were here
And all of the dreams that you treasure
Will soon come together
And that's when your sorrow will find tomorrow
And you will rise again
"Wish you were here", Mark Harris
I keep thinking of this song and thought I would share it with you.
Danielle
One more, this one I found comfort in a few years ago when I had a miscarriage. Danielle
You're in a better place, I've heard a thousand times
And at least a thousand times I've rejoiced for you
But the reason why I'm broken, the reason why I cry
Is how long must I wait to be with you
I close my eyes and I see your face
If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place
Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
I've never been more homesick than now
Help me Lord cause I don't understand your ways
The reason why I wonder if I'll ever know
But, even if you showed me, the hurt would be the same
Cause I'm still here so far away from home
I close my eyes and I see your face
If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place
Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
I've never been more homesick than now
In Christ, there are no goodbye
And in Christ, there is no end
So I'll hold onto Jesus with all that I have
To see you again
To see you again
And I close my eyes and I see your face
If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place
Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
Won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
Won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
I've never been more homesick than now
We love you all, and are still constantly praying. We still stand by you through all of this. From one Mommy's heart to another's I love ya so much, and am here for you in whatever way you need. Melissa,Brian, Morgan, and Colin
We wanted you to know that we have been thinking about you constantly and lifting your names to the Lord in prayer. We can only imagine the emotions you are facing and we want you to know that our savior knows and he cares. I've been thinking of the words to a song, "God never moves without purpose or plan...in darkness he giveth a song...O rejoice in the Lord, He makes no mistakes, he knoweth the end of each path that I take, and when I am tried and purified, I shall come forth as gold." May God bless you with his presence during this intense time of testing. We love you. May you find that song in the darkness.
Dear Jon and Laura,
I am so sad to hear about the loss of your little Lindsay. It is very hard, but it is not forever. How blessed to know our heavenly Father is caring for your little girl,and one day you will all be together, and then you will never be apart again. Our little girl, Christy, has been in heaven for 22 years, and I am looking forward to being with her again one day and finding out how God used her short life. I know He did, but I am sure there are many ways that I am unaware of.
Yesterday afternoon I had a strong urge to pray for all of you that God would give you grace through whatever was going on at that time. A little later I heard that Lindsay was in heaven. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. We want you to know that our church family is also praying for you.
In HIS Love,
Kim Olachea
Dear ones - We have been following the blogs and praying for all of you more than daily since Lindsay entered the hospital. However the computer is in the shop right now, and we didn't hear of Lindsay's homegoing until just now--Saturday afternoon. Words cannot express our sadness when we think of what you have all gone through and what is yet to come. But we thank God that He is in control, makes no mistakes, and will see you though all the hard places. You will also experience the joy and comfort of knowing that your little angel is now in a much better place, happy and healed.
We will continue praying for all of you and thank you for letting us share your journey of faith with you.
Our love, Walter & Shirley Gorny
Laura, Jon and Tanner, Bill, Jan, Zach and all the families:
Words are inadequate at this time for your loss. I was able to keep my prayers going for Lindsay and you through the Freedom Fighters e-Devotional. The Lord has made Lindsay whole and ceased any suffering she had.
"The Lord is my Shepard, I shall not want.
He maketh me lie down in green pastures, he leadeth me beside still waters.
He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
Yes, though I walk though the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.
Thou preparest a table befor me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the LORD for ever." Psalm 23 (KJV)
Mark Letham (Freedom Fighter, Leading By Example Member, Langhorne UMC)
Like the Apostle Paul,Lindsay fought the good fight and now she reposes wih Father Son, and Holy Spirit.She is in Paradise awaiting the day when she will see all her loved ones.May God bless all who loved and prayed for this beautiful and loving girl.Like all in her family I will miss her{spiritualy}.Someday I hope to see her in the heavenly city .May God bless allLinday's loved ones.jko
Diane and I are praying for you. How we praise God for your testimony. I know that the Lord will give you special prace and strength through the prayers that are being offered on your behalf.
We love you all,
George and Diane Nichols
Laura, Jon, Tanner, grandparents and family,
Our hearts go out to you in sympathy. Your great loss is Our precious Lindsay's gain! We are so thankful that we can be assured that she is in Heaven with Jesus. May that be your peace and comfort in your time of loss.
I along with some of your Groen aunties are leaving Minnesota tomorrow and we'll see you in NH by Monday night, the Lord willing.
We love you all very much. Aunt Mavis and Uncle Howard
Dear Family,
Our hearts ache with you as our family has been touched by your little girl Lindsay. Praying that you will feel his peace. The blog has been such a blessing. Thank you for sharing her life story with us. I know wihtout a doubt as I read the comments from the nurses Lindsay touched, that God is, was and will be see though her.
The Mumma's (Sharon)
Dear Groen and Welte Families,
We have waited this long to post, because we did not know what to say. Your emotions at this point must be very raw and varied. We cannot even begin to imagine the pain you must feel. But then in the very next breath, we know that God is providing you all with just the right measure of comfort, grace and peace. We know He will bring you all through this, but not before you go through grieving for sweet Lindsay Bear. (I feel priviledged to call her by that special name!)
Just reading through some of these comments is a worship experience. How awesome God is to put all of these people together for one purpose, to glorify Him. Your testimony and Lindsay's life did bring glory to Him, even if you cannot see that yet. We are confident that you will see that oneday. You have been a great testimony to the girls.
Thanks for allowing all of us the honor of praying for all of you. So many people have united through this blog. And don't think we are going to stop praying now. I(jane) have flipped my pink bracelet around, so the words don't show anymore. Lindsay has a perfect heart now, she doesn't need our prayers. She is laughing with Jesus and smiling with those gorgeous blue eyes. But each time I notice it, I will pray for the Groen and Welte families.
Because He Lives,
Jane, Henry, Abigail and Danielle Roberts
Please know that even strangers stand with you during this time. I pray for your family.
I pray that God wraps you in his loving arms and brings you peace. Be sure that Lindsay is safe with him who knows and loves us all.
Our love and prayers have been with you these difficult weeks. Your faith in God has been an inspiration to us. We will continue to pray for all of you and will pass on the blogs to Ruth Brook and Mildred Lund here at Calvary Fellowship Homes.
Dottie & Roy Allen
Know that the prayers for you and your family has reach as far as Atlanta , GA. May the Lord be with you as well.
Stephanie Misiak
I am so, so sorry.
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